Even if all of this is wrong, God’s grace, the universal love, source, it all covers you to explore what you need for healing the loss of a loved one. Pure intentions of connection deletes consequences of beliefs.
We all have titles and probably more than one but when we cross the titles mean nothing. Whether parents, siblings, partners, spouses, friends, enemies it’s all the same in the end but what is different is how we cope with issues of guilt, shame and pain around the titles.
Grief with the elderly or a loved one who suffered a drawn out illness is the long run we are talking about in part 12. Even with a long life or a long ending, time with them is never enough. Grief of this kind has its own uniqueness.
If we could understand or see what happens after death with certainty, we wouldn’t be as afraid of topics like suicide. Loss from suicide like every loss has it’s own suffering but suicide seems to create more suffering in the ones they leave on this side than other losses I’ve communicated with.
There are specific things you can do to help make your connection to the other side and messages from loved ones stronger whether on your own or with a Medium. Yes they know we want to talk to them and yes they need our help! But communication across the veil is a delicate 3 way dance and certain habits can hinder communication even if Spirit is trying their best to show up.