Even if all of this is wrong, God’s grace, the universal love, source, it all covers you to explore what you need for healing the loss of a loved one. Pure intentions of connection deletes consequences of beliefs.

If we listen we can have a glimpse in this life for what is waiting for us in the next. At the very least we may gain perspective on making life here less painful.

What is grief’s hindsight? It’s the moment you find yourself saying “I finally know why they had to go.” The only way to understand the why and heal on the journey of loss is to walk through the grief.

We all have titles and probably more than one but when we cross the titles mean nothing. Whether parents, siblings, partners, spouses, friends, enemies it’s all the same in the end but what is different is how we cope with issues of guilt, shame and pain around the titles.

Grief with the elderly or a loved one who suffered a drawn out illness is the long run we are talking about in part 12. Even with a long life or a long ending, time with them is never enough. Grief of this kind has its own uniqueness.

Attempting to grasp the pain associated with losing a child or young person can only be done through experience. Even as a Medium I will not pretend to feel that pain having only witnessed it through communication.

If we could understand or see what happens after death with certainty, we wouldn’t be as afraid of topics like suicide. Loss from suicide like every loss has it’s own suffering but suicide seems to create more suffering in the ones they leave on this side than other losses I’ve communicated with.

The other side of sudden loss was the need for closure and forgiveness. We will discuss all of this from the perspective of Spirit and those crossed who came through to deliver beautiful answers to these questions.